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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>2024 June 4, 12:54pm; June 5, 10:43am; June 6, 19:46 California (<strong><span style="color: #990066;"><em>Mille merci, chere Sabine!</em></span></strong>)</p>
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<div id="attachment_11809" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 526px"><a href="http://lovemadeofheart.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2024/06/IMG_2441_Claudines_balcony_garden1.jpg"><img class=" wp-image-11809   " title="img_2441_claudines_balcony_garden_Paris" src="http://lovemadeofheart.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2024/06/IMG_2441_Claudines_balcony_garden1-1024x768.jpg" alt="" width="516" height="387" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Claudine&#39;s balcony garden, Paris</p></div>
<h2><span style="color: #990099;">Dear Readers</span></h2>
<h2><span style="color: #990099;">I wish you a good day and night, always.</span></h2>
<p>Thank you, Mr. Roald Dahl, for having written <em>ESIO TROT</em> (  esiotrot is &#8220;tortoise&#8221; spelled backward)</p>
<p>Thank you, screenwriters Richard Curtis and Paul Mayhew-Archer, for the movie <em>ROALD DAHL&#8217;S</em> <em>ESIO TROT</em></p>
<p>When depression robs my creative energy to write, I look for &#8220;happy movies&#8221; to lift me which then inspires me to write about the themes in the movie which then leads me to resume working on my own projects.</p>
<p>Yesterday (June 3), the names (&#8220;tags&#8221;) of these two actors helped me find the movie <em>ROALD DAHL&#8217;S ESIO TROT</em></p>
<p>Judi Dench (as Mrs. Silver) and Dustin Hoffman (as Mr. Hoppy) and James Corden (as Narrator)</p>
<p>Soundtrack includes Louis Armstrong&#8217;s singing &#8220;A Kiss To Build A Dream On&#8221; composed by Bert Kalmar, Harry Ruby and Oscar Hammerstein II.</p>
<p><a href="https://genius.com/Louis-armstrong-a-kiss-to-build-a-dream-on-lyrics" target="_blank">https://genius.com/Louis-armstrong-a-kiss-to-build-a-dream-on-lyrics</a></p>
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<h2>This is a movie I want to watch again and again&#8230; it&#8217;s like re-living a joyful day.</h2>
<p>In the movie&#8230; Narrator tells us:</p>
<p>&#8220;Mr. Hoppy, the hero of our story, lived in a nice flat in an apartment block in London. There are three things you should know about Mr. Hoppy.  He&#8217;s kind, he&#8217;s shy, and, most importantly, he&#8217;s not that guy in the hat.&#8221;</p>
<p>(Mr. Hoppy is the man holding the elevator door for  Mr. Mavrokoukoudopolous the old man with the hat and cane. By the way, since the setting is London. Elevator is called a &#8220;lift&#8221;)</p>
<p>At the fourth viewing of this movie &#8230; I see just how wonderfully the story is crafted.</p>
<p>At  two minutes into the movie &#8211; first foreshadowing of Mr. Hoppy&#8217;s door which is crucial for the &#8220;climax&#8221; scene.</p>
<p>He turns on his CD player &#8211; Louis Armstrong&#8217;s singing &#8220;A Kiss To Build A Dream On&#8221;</p>
<p>Mr. Hoppy reaches into his satchel and places into his fruit bowl &#8211; one apple, one orange, one banana.  He opens his refrigerator, we see one tomato.</p>
<p>Narrator tells us &#8220;It&#8217;s [This story is] going to be full of passion, surprises&#8230; as indeed is our Mr. Hoppy.&#8221;</p>
<p>As the volume of the musical instrumental increases, we see Mr. Hoppy affectionately tending to his balcony-garden; his irrigation system drips water onto the colorful plants.</p>
<p>Narrator says:</p>
<p>&#8220;The truth is, there were two loves in Mr. Hoppy&#8217;s life. One was his flowers. The other was his secret love that he kept all to himself. Like so many secrets, it was the most important thing of all about him. Because Mr. Hoppy was in love&#8230; with the girl downstairs.&#8221;</p>
<p>(&#8220;the girl&#8221; is the vibrant Mrs. Silver, a widow,, probably in her seventies. Mrs. Silver&#8217;s balcony is on the floor below Mr. Hoppy&#8217;s.  We hear her at around four minutes and thirty-three seconds into the movie when she says &#8220;Good morning, Mr. Hoppy.&#8221;  Then we see her.    Her main love is her tortoise named Alfie.)</p>
<p>By the end of the first five minutes, I am pulled into the story world.</p>
<p>By the end of the first seven minutes, I am completely hooked with these two characters.</p>
<p>At 13:36 when Mr. Hoppy has the courage to say something personal to Mrs. Silver, he can&#8217;t see from his balcony that Mrs. Silver (in her wide-brimmed straw hat) has just inserted earbuds and couldn&#8217;t possibly hear him.</p>
<p>At 28:57 we see the second foreshadowing with Mr. Hoppy&#8217;s door.</p>
<p>At 54:38 we see the third foreshadowing with that door.</p>
<p>LAUGHING LIFTS DEPRESSION</p>
<p>In the scene where Mr. Hoppy is approaching the lift in the lobby with THE gadget, Mrs. Silver (wearing happy colors) is coming out of the lift. She tells him that she&#8217;s going to a dance marathon to raise money for charity and that they need sponsors. Mr. Hoppy says he would like to be a sponsor, would donate a pound. When Mrs. Silver reminds him that this is for charity, he says:<br clear="none" />&#8220;A pound a minute&#8221;</p>
<p>(I laughed out loud; laughing shifts energy, lifts depression. So does smiling for one&#8217;s self.  For me, laughing is a stronger elixir.)</p>
<h3>I learned these British phrases:</h3>
<p>&#8220;very good news&#8221;  -  In the lift (elevator), Mrs. Silver says:  &#8220;What a quiet lift. It&#8217;s very good news.&#8221;</p>
<p>She calls herself &#8220;a silly sausage&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;a good old knees-up&#8221; means &#8220;to dance&#8221;<strong><br />
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<p>The little boy&#8217;s mother says to her son: &#8220;I&#8217;m doing dinner.&#8221;</p>
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<h3>In the children&#8217;s book, Mrs. Silver never finds out about Mr. Hoppy&#8217;s using deception to win her affections; in the movie, her finding out that he used trickery serves as the climax of the story.</h3>
<h3>In the children&#8217;s book, there is no Mr. Pringle;  in the movie, this character serves as archetypes Herald and Trickster and is the person who creates complications for protagonist Mr. Hoppy.</h3>
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<p><a href="https://www.imdb.com/title/tt3205394/" target="_blank">https://www.imdb.com/title/tt3205394/</a></p>
<h3 id="director" style="text-align: left;">Directed by Dearbhla Walsh</h3>
<h3 style="text-align: left;">Writing Credits:</h3>
<h3 style="text-align: left;">Richard Curtis and Paul Mayhew-Archer</h3>
<h3 style="text-align: left;">Based on the novel by Roald Dahl</h3>
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<p>Stars (in order of appearance in the movie)</p>
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<div>In the movie, Mrs. Silver tells Mr. Hoppy and Mr. Springer that her favorite book is <em>THE RAILWAY CHILDREN</em>, children&#8217;s book written by E. (Edith) Nesbit</div>
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<p>Thank you for reading my blog post: &#8220;Roald Dahl&#8217;s story ESIO TROT, Judi Dench, Dustin Hoffman, Balcony Garden, Love, Kindness Themes&#8230;Lift Depression&#8221;</p>
<h3><span style="color: #cc00cc;">Wishing you all the happiness that a vibrant garden would bring.</span></h3>
<h3><span style="color: #cc00cc;">Sincerely,</span></h3>
<h3><span style="color: #cc00cc;"> Teresa Jade LeYung</span></h3>
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		<description><![CDATA[published December  14, 2019 Reading Victoria Sweet, M.D.&#8217;s new book SLOW MEDICINE The Way to Healing https://www.victoriasweet.com/ and watching/listening to Carole King (&#8220;A Conversation with Carole King&#8221; &#8211; Veteran journalist Mike Barnicle talks to Ms. King about her memoir A NATURAL  WOMAN at John F. Kennedy Presidential Library and Museum on April 12, 2012) https://www.jfklibrary.org/events-and-awards/forums/2012-04-12-a-conversation-with-carole-king motivated my [...]]]></description>
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<p>Reading <strong>Victoria Sweet</strong>, <strong>M.D</strong>.&#8217;s new book <strong><em>SLOW MEDICINE The Way to Healing </em></strong><a href="https://www.victoriasweet.com/" target="_blank">https://www.victoriasweet.com/</a> and watching/listening to <strong>Carole King</strong> (&#8220;A Conversation with Carole King&#8221; &#8211; Veteran journalist <strong>Mike Barnicle</strong> talks to <strong>Ms. King</strong> about <strong>her memoir <em>A NATURAL  WOMAN</em></strong> at John F. Kennedy Presidential Library and Museum on April 12, 2012)<a href="https://www.jfklibrary.org/events-and-awards/forums/2012-04-12-a-conversation-with-carole-king" target="_blank"> https://www.jfklibrary.org/events-and-awards/forums/2012-04-12-a-conversation-with-carole-king</a> motivated my completing <strong>Part 2 of Author Teresa Jade LeYung’s New Monologue “What The Man In 17-B Wanted”</strong></p>
<p>In my blog post <a href="http://lovemadeofheart.com/blog/blog-post-3-of-3-papa-makes-decision-while-in-nursing-home-again-by-teresa-jade-leyung/ " target="_blank">http://lovemadeofheart.com/blog/blog-post-3-of-3-papa-makes-decision-while-in-nursing-home-again-by-teresa-jade-leyung/</a>  my father was coping with his circumstances &#8211; as a reluctant resident at a nursing home.</p>
<p>This is what happened in November and December 2018.</p>
<p>Remember that piece of paper that I needed to fill out for the nursing home staff? The one about naming a mortuary.  Every resident must fill out that form <a href="http://lovemadeofheart.com/blog/author-teresa-jade-leyungs-new-monologue-what-the-man-in-17-b-wanted-part-1/ " target="_blank">http://lovemadeofheart.com/blog/author-teresa-jade-leyungs-new-monologue-what-the-man-in-17-b-wanted-part-1/ </a></p>
<p>Well, there is another form to deal with &#8211; &#8220;Notice to Terminate Lease&#8221; -  the agreement between my father and the apartment building property management &#8211; that a tenant must give up his lease after six months of absence and vacate his apartment.</p>
<p>I waited for a &#8220;good&#8221; day to show this second document to my father.  Only his signature would be accepted by the property manager.  That day, Papa appeared to be cheerful, the sun was shining. I said to him: &#8220;Papa, remember you went to the hospital in July? You&#8217;re safe here with nurses and CNAs who care about you. Your Social Security money is paying for you to be here. There is no money to pay for your apartment too. Also, the lease says that you have to give up the apartment by end of December. I will help you. Don&#8217;t worry. I&#8217;ll take care of everything. You just have to sign this paper.  Okay?&#8221;</p>
<p>He signed.  I don&#8217;t know what happened after I said &#8220;Goodnight&#8221; to him. He probably cried when no one was watching.</p>
<p>What I didn&#8217;t have the heart to tell him was that every object which represented his life had to go away &#8211; to a storage unit , to a recycling center, or to the dump. If not for my brother&#8217;s first wife and four other precious friends, I wouldn&#8217;t have been strong enough to take on this job.</p>
<p>What irony for a writer &#8211; I (narrator) wanted to give my father (protagonist) what he wanted (to be able to return to the place he called &#8220;home&#8221;) but he was a fall risk and could no longer live alone.  Because he was relying on me to be his advocate, and,  because he didn&#8217;t get what he wanted most, he probably viewed me as an obstacle as well.</p>
<p>Like the son in the movie <strong><em>Garbo Speaks</em></strong> (written by Larry Grusin), I was the daughter who was worn out chasing after something that seemed impossible to obtain.</p>
<p>Back to that first piece of paper that I needed to fill out for the nursing home staff.</p>
<h3>I need to do the right thing when Papa dies. Mrs. Chu, the oldest resident at the nursing home, is 107! My father is only 85. He has a long way to go.</h3>
<p><strong>Does my father want to be buried or cremated? He won&#8217;t talk about illness, certainly not about funeral</strong>.  I cannot read his mind.</p>
<p>Thanks to Dr. Amy Grace Lam who said to me &#8220;Teresa, you will get your answer not by asking your father but by finding the right person to ask your father.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>The right person would be someone who speaks fluent Cantonese and is the archetype to ask such a question.</strong></p>
<p>On the day when all three Cantonese-speaking team members (nurse, social worker, chaplain) showed up at the nursing home to meet my father and me, Amy Grace Lam&#8217;s words replayed in my head.</p>
<p>I showed Chaplain Yuen the piece of paper  and told him: &#8220;I want to honor my father&#8217;s body and need to know what he wants.&#8221;</p>
<p>I did not need to explain any further; the chaplain nodded, and took the paper from my hand.</p>
<p>While he was chatting with my father, I stepped aside to talk to the nurse and social worker.</p>
<p>Fifteen minutes later, I hear Chaplain Yuen telling my father that he would visit again.  As though a director was in the room and we were all rehearsing a scene, a CNA comes into the room to distract my father. The chaplain says to me: &#8220;Your father wants burial, not cremation.&#8221;  The social worker tells me that she&#8217;ll get me a list of mortuaries which will include those catering to families of Chinese heritage.</p>
<p>I got what I wanted &#8211; the answer to my question. What more can a daughter ask for.</p>
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<div id="attachment_8807" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 501px"><a href="http://lovemadeofheart.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2019/12/Papa-in-gray-T-shirt_2018.11.20.jpg"><img class=" wp-image-8807  " title="papa-in-gray-t-shirt_2018-11-20" src="http://lovemadeofheart.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2019/12/Papa-in-gray-T-shirt_2018.11.20-1024x1024.jpg" alt="" width="491" height="491" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">photo by Teresa Jade LeYung 2018 November 20</p></div>
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<h2><span style="color: #990066;">I wish you, dear Reader, excellent health.</span></h2>
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<p>Sincerely,</p>
<p>Teresa Jade LeYung</p>
<div id="attachment_8817" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 306px"><a href="http://lovemadeofheart.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2019/12/IMG_3259_Teresa_Jade_LeYung_photo_by_Sharon_Leong_2019.05.10-Copy.jpg"><img class=" wp-image-8817" title="img_3259_teresa_jade_leyung_photo_by_sharon_leong_2019-05-10" src="http://lovemadeofheart.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2019/12/IMG_3259_Teresa_Jade_LeYung_photo_by_Sharon_Leong_2019.05.10-Copy-662x1024.jpg" alt="" width="296" height="459" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Teresa Jade LeYung - photo by Sharon Leong 2019 May 10</p></div>
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<h4><span style="font-size: small;">As a story theme consultant, award-winning writer, and platform-building coach for pre-published and published authors, <strong>Writing Coach </strong>TERESA JADE LEYUNG empowers her clients to identify their core themes in their manuscripts and career mapping.<br />
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